In reply to Nick Haskins.

For most features I want for my site, I have MANY plugins I can use. So I do see the my way or the highway thing he is saying.

What if I see you at a WordCamp. I could buy you dinner, or a beer as a thank you. If I ever buy you dinner (as a thank you), I guarantee you that you will gain a few tonnes in weight and will be the best meal of your life.