@Matt - I don't intend to attack (or pile on) here, but I have to comment. This response:
Ben, you need to get laid.
Reminds me of this Tweet by Ryan Duff:
@chip_bennett Seriously, what bug crawled up your ass? Are you unhappy in your marriage or something? You complain about everything

I'm just going to keep these two comments in my back pocket, for the next time that someone admonishes about not making personal attacks.

Seriously, Matt, such responses are beneath you. Just IMHO, you owe it to the project and community that you lead, to maintain a higher sense of decorum that what is evidenced by this and other similar comments.