In reply to Gary Jones.

Great idea. I asked my own partner to read this article and comment thread yesterday and share her thoughts with me. Still waiting though on the feedback. I do know that the no smartphone at table or in the bedroom helps keep us on track despite long hours.. I couldn't imagine the mutual hell of dual smartphones following all of a couple's private and intimate moments.

Focused attention is the greatest gift a person can give to another (well maybe kidneys rank higher or a carefree college education). Focused attention is the greatest free gift a person can give to another.