Instead of focusing on the things you can't do, focus on the things you want to do and then work on achieving them.

Want to get some more technical chops and do consulting work? Nothing stopping you.

Want to go from being a community enthusiast to being flown around the country to talk about WordPress at conferences (not just WordCamps)? Nothing stopping you.

I'll tell you this from experience - now is the time to start taking those first steps. You're getting married, you might have kids one day soon, it gets a lot harder to make big changes in your life when your little angels are eating up a lot of your day (though they make you so happy doing it).

PS - I'm honestly surprised you haven't turned this site into a stronger authority review site for WordPress plugins, themes, etc and monetized that traffic with affiliate links. Nothing wrong with that if you're doing honest reviews.