In reply to intriguingnw.

> It is not always language barrier its the fine line between robust free and frank discussion and thinly disguised contempt, even arrogance, but its rarely that people don’t care.

Yeah. It's a sad state of affairs when it comes to things like this :(.

> Sometimes I hate to raise it but just as much frankness but a kinder tone would be great.

We shouldn't hate to raise the fact that we, as a group, should be more kind. I completely agree with what you're saying.