Tom and Jeff thanks thoughtful and needed. It is not always language barrier its the fine line between robust free and frank discussion and thinly disguised contempt, even arrogance, but its rarely that people don't care. Sometimes I hate to raise it but just as much frankness but a kinder tone would be great. Everybody has to start somewhere and sometimes in discussions that seems to get forgotten. WordPress needs new blood and more Women, let's not acare them off. Hate to say it but generally women in the community approach communications differently shall we say, but that is just my opinion. But thanks to you both for timely reminders on an important subject.