In reply to Scott Walkinshaw.

I gotcha there. Completely. And I really do appreciate the correction, Sarah just updated the text for me so the difference between the way I'd use it (or you use it) and the way it can be used isn't mixed together as it was in the original.

And I completely understand your concern about pieces like this one being ammo for the "never changers." It's a tension I feel myself. I try to always thread a needle around such things, but I know I can easily fail to capture the nuance.