King's Rook - I'm a feminist, too (a sex-positive one who believes that people can make their own decisions when it comes to sex). So, what are you saying - that I raped him? Even though he admitted while we were having sex that he WAS looking at my cleavage before? Even though he said he's wanted to "fuck me hard" since he heard me speak? I think you misunderstood the situation - it was just 2 horny people who wanted to have sex (one of them just wouldn't admit it). BTW, as a rape victim, I find your comparison of my one-night stand to real rape to be ridiculous.