Where exactly is the line between flirting and harassment? Are sexually explicit advances enough to always be "harassment"? I've always considered myself to be against harassment but after reading how you were harassed, I realize that I'm guilty of it myself. At a WordCamp after-party, I once heavily pressured a man to go to my hotel room with me (yes, including phrases like "I know you want to f*** me" and including him rejecting me the first few times). The only difference is that he eventually agreed to come to my hotel room.

But what if he hadn't? Would I have been guilty of harassment? From my point of view, it was obvious that he wanted to hook up - I only first noticed him because I saw him trying to take a peek at my cleavage. So, even though he rejected my advances the first few times, that's why I kept pressuring him and didn't think of it as me harassing him. I was convinced he was simply playing "hard to get" - and I was right. So, does simply making sexually explicit advances count as harassment? I just wish to point out that it's a complex issue and we shouldn't be so quick to judge all flirting as automatic harassment.