Sarah - The man also repeatedly told me no and was initially saying he had no interest. And he also wasn't flirting - I just thought I saw him glancing at my cleavage (but he might have just been reading my shirt). But what if I was wrong? And what if the man who was flirting with you also thought you were playing "hard to get"? I agree about it being better to just abstain from flirting with anyone. And I agree about WC organizers getting guidelines to know what to do in case someone reports something. But if someone proposed a blanket ban on sexually explicit flirting at WordCamp after-parties, I would definitely be against it. Because I knew I was taking a risk when I was flirting with that man - but when I'm horny, I take risks lol. But I definitely agree with encouraging people to not take that risk - I'm just not a fan of blanket bans on things.