Jessica,

Frankly, I find much of King's Rook's opinion refreshing because what you described doing would be called sexual harassment and might be called rape - even in court since there was alcohol - even the genders had been reversed.

On the other hand, I can see your side of things too since it's not rape as long as consent is given w/o true coercion being involved and, irrespective of the genders, consent given due being tired of refusing is still consent.

On the thirds hand, I've run into plenty of "sex-positive" feminists who have some truly twisted ideas of what that means and what is acceptable behavior...