The challenge is that every "differing" opinion, is presuming to be from someone with a bad attitude. I can't tell you how many time I've been told, "you're either with us or against us", like that's the only 2 options.

I am reminded of 2 quotes:

" Just because I'm a dick, doesn't mean I'm wrong.
Just because you're outraged, doesn't mean you're right. "

and

" I can't hear your opinion over your lack of Trac Patches . "

I am ok with being one of the people thats not loved unanimously across the WP community, but I'm also aware of which quotes above I want to live by.